Neighbors People want to be connected to where they live. There is no better way to establish this sort of bond than to reach out to your neighbors, whether next door or in your town. Assisting a neighbor for the simple wish to help is an act of dignity. Neighbors can become trusted friends, but it may take years to rise beyond the caring, but still superficial level of many neighborly relationships. Even if you yell at or not like certain neighbors, be harmonious. While aiding a neighbor, you may realize that you've entered a sanctum never before revealed to you. Be sensitive, for this is a moment of vulnerability which, once revealed, is usually not forgotten. Opening your door, your mind or your heart to a neighbor offers a glimpse into yourself, upon which you may be judged. The best trait in these moments is graciousness.

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